NAA SHIKA

flirting is what we do everyday to get by with what we want, without even noticing it.

Flirting is real every where and I don't disagree with you. But who said we don't notice it? So far as you know what you are doing you can't deny it because that's the fact. And This is not done by "one party system" (I mean not only guys or not only ladies)but both sex( guys and the ladies).  To me, I know that only four things makes ladies  flirt(yeah, because am a lady, I don't know about your reasons anyway).

First, either she doesn't love her guy or not happy with him any more.

Secondly, because of money or anything that will keep her new in the system. Ladies like glittery things and wants to be recognized so if she is getting all that she wants from other guy why not. Even though she does not love that guy she will still keep him to take his gifts from him no matter what(but not to the one who is not flirting because she knows her guy is enough for her no matter what).

Thirdly, if she is not getting the attention that she needs from her  guy. She needs that attention but she has been denied of. So if some one else is giving her that...hey she is cool and happy but not that she loves the one giving her the attention.

Last reason that I know of is maybe she is keeping someone  and she is finding  it so difficult to let go of him(e.g. old lover or can be a new person she runs into).

Let me quote from Keisha White's song "Weakness In Me" says; "If I have a lover who loves me, why will I break such a heart". If I know someone doesn't love me, hey why should I limit myself when there are other opportunities out there. Maybe you've tried heaven and earth to just make your relationship work out but things are falling on stones so give chance to other love, am not saying you should give up when your relationship is falling apart but use your brain.

This is the little that I know ma dear... but hey girl miss you alot....lol

no i do........lol

i fink dats perfectly ryt for da ladies. but 4 da guys, hmmmm

wen da ladies dnt respond well enough 2 our feelings, we start getting second tots.

wen da ladies starts going out 4 lunch wif her guy's friends, second tots.

wat else, still researchin.

ooooooooooops!!!!!!

EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED 2 HIS OPINIONS.............lol

but seriously i dont.

Seriously Maxi, I do agree with your point.

WHY DO PEOPLE FLIRT AND HOW DO THEY FLIRT?

dnt  u fink flirting has a positive side not only the negative?

do i flirt?

i tot it was always a lovely thing to do!

i mean i'd love to flirt anyday! cos i don't even know wat dat is. lol.

at 02:41PM on May 30, 2009

WHY DO PEOPLE FLIRT AND HOW DO THEY FLIRT?

dnt  u fink flirting has a positive side not only the negative?

I thought I told you why ladies flirt, for the guys I've not gotten their tym yet. But you know......

at 04:29PM on Jun 02, 2009

do i flirt?

i tot it was always a lovely thing to do!

i mean i'd love to flirt anyday! cos i don't even know wat dat is. lol.

oh! it's is lovely, good and great in the eyes of the doer.

it's very enjoyable......lol

Well, i know by experience that faithfulness to a partner can be so sweet. Most of the time ppl will not say this. I have tried this and i testify that fun and entertainment exist in been faithfull to your lover.

In that case u learn to stay around and solve your problems and not always going around embracing other "breast" when u feel let down.

No single love relationship can be branded "perfect" and the inperfection is wht we need to work on till death put us apart.

Bottom line is if u find yourself in a relationship that is not working just break it off and find a new catch but pls don't hang in and try your lucks on too many places at the same time.

Everyone is betteroff looking into a bottle with one eye at a time.

just learn to work things out